Prayer Requests - time management/ get over divorce

I strong feelings for a woman who I am dating, Melanie. However, I am still hurting from my divorce from almost 3 years ago when my ex-wife who had an affair while we were married. It is hard for me to be in a relationship with a woman again. Melanie is a great Christian woman the Lord has blessed me with. At 50, I am slacking and not doing my part as a man and treating Melanie properly, and I need to let go of my hurt from the past (ex-wife) and move on. Please pray for repentance covering all that was done through my divorce so that I can move on. I pray my family, espically my son Carter will accept Melanie. Overall, I pray for my heart to heal and love fully again, and to spend more time with Melanie.