Prayer Requests - my son working, his marriage, my work, brothers have a good relationship

I am begging for your prayers for my son Dan start working, be financially independent, successful and prosperous, I have been praying for the past 16 years and nothing has happened. Please pray for him and his wife are happy together, have a wonderful marriage, successful and prosperous together. Help my work do well and pay for our expenses so we can be comfortable, help my two boys are very close and have a wonderful relationship. I will ask My Lord to take me first from this life before my husband please. I am 73 years old and cannot take this pressure in my life it’s too much for me, please help, Ty